{"id":786,"date":"2010-10-06T14:24:53","date_gmt":"2010-10-06T14:24:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/?p=786"},"modified":"2010-10-06T14:24:53","modified_gmt":"2010-10-06T14:24:53","slug":"non_nobis_solum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/?p=786","title":{"rendered":"Non Nobis Solum"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We can&#8217;t just let them secede.<\/p>\n<p>It would be nice, it would be easy, it would be a great relief to drop about 15 states of dead weight and go back to being a hard-charging up-and-coming country with a dynamic future, unencumbered by the sclerosis of the Hookworm Belt.<\/p>\n<p>But <i>we can&#8217;t do it.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>If you want to know why, look at the recent publicity for suicides among gay teens. Dan Savage is out promoting his &#8220;It Gets Better&#8221; campaign, which is fine as it goes, and a pretty good message for almost any teen &#8211; but what if it doesn&#8217;t? What if a kid&#8217;s stuck in a rural town, with average grades, and going off to college is only going to put him a hundred miles from home and among the same sorts of people? And what if it&#8217;s not just a question of being gay? What if it&#8217;s being some other color, or having the wrong accent, or just plain being <i>different?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>We assume people could just get away if they wanted to &#8211; probably because most of us reading this (certainly those of us writing it) are well off, healthy, &#8220;free white and twenty-one&#8221; as the saying used to go. And with all those advantages, it still took me until graduate school to break out of the metro area &#8211; and another three years to break out of the South. How, then, are we to identify and rescue every single prisoner of the cult of conformity &#8211; especially once we&#8217;ve allowed said cult to form its own country? Especially if they&#8217;re ready, willing, and able to decide that <i>who you are as a person<\/i> is against the law?<\/p>\n<p>No retreat. No surrender. No punting. No throwing out hands in the air and letting them go. We stay, and we fight, and we win. And you can paint that right on the bottom of the flag: &#8220;not for ourselves alone.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We can&#8217;t just let them secede. It would be nice, it would be easy, it would be a great relief to drop about 15 states of dead weight and go back to being a hard-charging up-and-coming country with a dynamic future, unencumbered by the sclerosis of the Hookworm Belt. But we can&#8217;t do it. If &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/?p=786\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Non Nobis Solum&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/786"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=786"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/786\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=786"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=786"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iwasmisinformed.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=786"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}